Your vagina is magical! Did you know the same erectile tissue that composes the penis is also in your vagina? These cells and muscles are meant to both expand and contract, just like the penis does.
Preparing your perineum is a great way to give yourself confidence that you can receive your baby in the most intact of ways. It’s a test run for the “ring of fire” – the intense stretching sensation that occurs just moments before your baby will be in your arms. You can design your prep as part of your birth planning.
It’s the slow stretch when your baby’s head is on your perineum that creates both the ring of fire sensation and prevents tearing. When your care provider delivers baby’s head very slowly, your tissue has time to adjust and reduces tears. More and more women are actively participating in the slow delivery method by using their own hands to apply counter-pressure to baby’s head.
STARTING AT 34 WEEKS, USE THIS SIMPLE METHOD:
Rub pure and organic olive, coconut, or sesame oil on your perineum and labia. Slide two fingers just inside your vulva at the perineum, and use them to firmly but tenderly stretch the skin and opening.
Take your time and use your mind to relax into the stretching sensation! This way, you get a taste of the burning sensation of baby’s head being born. Experiencing this during a relaxed pregnancy moment prepares you to use your breath and mind to work with the sensation during birth, and to allow your baby to come through slowly.
Practice for about 10 minutes each day.
Squatting helps not only stretch your perineum, it helps prepare you to use this position as an option during labor and birth. Many women want to push baby out while squatting because it’s more comfortable and can make the second stage of labor shorter. But to be comfortable doing this during labor, you have to include it as part of birth planning. Incorporating squats into your daily pregnant life gives you many benefits, one of which is stretching the perineum.
Planning for birth is a broad-spectrum project. When you create your hospital bag checklist, include the version of your birth plan that says you want to use slow, controlled pushing to help stretch during labor and reduce tearing.
Adding a little massage and incorporating squats into your daily routine in your last weeks of pregnancy gives you a great chance for fulfilling your birth plan, and to feel your best after baby’s here.
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Published: October 14, 2015 | Reviewed by: Kim Walls, Natural Products Expert, Elizabeth Bachner, LM, CPM, L.Ac., Midwife | Last reviewed: October, 2015