Breastmilk is chock full of goodness for babies, and even more so for those who need some NICU time. If you wrote in your birth plan that you will be breastfeeding, the NICU team may already know and want to help you. Feeding breastmilk in the NICU is one way to give baby your love.
During pregnancy, when you’re writing your birth plan, it’s hard to think about planning for a NICU situation. But thinking about it ahead allows you to state in your birth plan that should a NICU situation arise, you want your baby to get breastmilk. And touring the NICU during pregnancy helps you know what to expect.
Having that statement on your birth plan means hospital staff will know how to support your desire. Remember to put that completed birth plan on your hospital bag checklist!
For many mothers, the newness of breastfeeding is complicated by this NICU situation.
And you may have a ton of emotions surrounding the reason your baby is in NICU. It’s good to acknowledge that you could feel overwhelm, fear, sadness, confusion, or even guilt.
You are a brand new mother flooded with hormones and your brand new baby is not at home with you. It’s normal to feel every emotion under the sun.
Yet committing to breastfeed, especially in the NICU, is an act overflowing with love and protection for your child. According to UNICEF, “Breast milk is particularly important for preterm infants and the small proportion of term infants with very low birth weight…”
Remember that each drop of colostrum you create in the first few days after baby’s birth is potently packed with everything baby needs, and especially good for preemie development.
Consequently, the milk your body creates for your little preemie isn’t the same milk a full-term infant would get. Your body knows exactly what your still-developing baby needs.
Your new baby may not be ready for breastmilk immediately. So until then, safely store your milk.
But when she’s ready, breastfeeding helps regulate baby’s heartbeat, improve oxygen levels, and reassures her with your scent, sounds, and warmth. Since the oxytocin created when you and baby are together helps calm fear, it increases her trust and security. And breastmilk helps build her still-developing immune system, brain, vision, and digestive tract.
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The March of Dimes suggests you:
Talk to the NICU lactation consultant
They can help with information, pumping tips, self-care, feeding positions and much more
Start pumping immediately
Create a set of steps for relaxation that will trigger your milk “let-down”
Establish milk supply
Pumping every 2-21/2 hours, day and night will signal your body to keep producing milk. And be sure to fully empty your breasts each time
Feed baby when she’s alert
She’ll have more energy to manage breastfeeding well
Ask NICU for a quiet room
It helps so much to be where you and baby are undisturbed and can relax during feeding
You’re both learning
So experiment and get support to find what works best for you both
Every drop matters
Especially in the beginning, no matter whether you exclusively breastfeed or also supplement with formula
Breastfeeding is bonding
Having skin-to-skin time with baby at your naked breast soothes and nurtures you both
Feeding breastmilk in the NICU offers both mothers and fathers other care-giving opportunities.
When one or both parents are in NICU there are many ways to nurture baby. American Pregnancy Association suggests:
- Touch your baby as much as possible.
- Talk, sing and read to your baby. Your baby can recognize your voice(s) and be comforted by hearing you.
- Change your baby’s diaper.
- Participate in your baby’s first bath.
- Take your baby’s temperature.
Your commitment to breastfeeding in NICU also means committing to yourself
At a time when you’re still healing, dealing with rampant hormones, and figuring out how to manage life until baby comes home, your health is also #1 on the to-do list.
Stress and exhaustion can affect breastfeeding and milk production. Just as your fierce love of baby makes you commit to the breastfeeding challenge, commit also to getting enough of what you need to recover well from birth:
- Sleep a lot
- Drink enough water
- Eat well
- Practice calming techniques
Whether you exclusively breastfeed your baby or partially supplement with formula, or whether you begin to breastfeed then change to formula, every drop is an ocean of love to your precious baby.
“Global Strategy for Infant and Young Child Feeding”, World Health Organization, #22. http://apps.who.int/iris/bitstream/10665/42590/1/9241562218.pdf?ua=1&ua=1
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Published: March 21, 2017 | By SP Turgon, Certified Labor Doula | Reviewed by: The Best Ever Baby Expert Team | Last reviewed: March, 2017